I have decided not to deal with it right now. I’ve laughed today, read books, talked to Ted Haggard a few times, talked to my Pastor about the book we’re writing together… but I have pushed this out of my mind ’cause I do not know how to deal with it. Anybody who has met Steve cannot help but like, even love, him. I don’t want to accept this yet. I have a feeling it’s gonna hit hard in a few days.
Truth is, the most horrible thing that has happened in my life since I gave it to God happened yesterday, but I learned of it this morning. If you follow me on Twitter you’d never know it. I don’t know what’s wrong with me, but I don’t wanna freakin’ deal with this. One of the speakers on the XXXChurch team ended his own life yesterday, and I don’t know how to handle it. His name is Steve Glisan. You can watch his story by clicking here. I loved Steve, but I never told him so.
I first met Steve at a Porn and Pancakes event in Colorado. Because of the places it took him, his porn addiction resulted in a loss of his wife and three kids. After years apart, he found help and his marriage was restored. That, my friends, is why he spoke for XXXChurch. The story of Steve and Ann Glisan was powerful.
I’m told he recently gave in to temptation and slipped up again… that he decided to handle the guilt by removing himself from this planet. After all the heartache his family went through before, I cannot understand this decision. Surely he had to know this was the worst possible choice? I guess not. Steve, who regularly blogged for XXXChurch under the name Steve G, is gone. I am so angry with him, yet so sad at the same time. I am not good handling this sort of thing. I don’t know what to do. I don’t know what to say. I feel freakin’ useless. There is nothing I can say to ease the pain his family must feel. There is nothing I can say or do to deal with the way I feel, either.