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Porn Stories: Another Email from a Former Model

Hey there. Haven’t talked to you in a long time. I’m hoping what I’m reading is true. Good for you. I’ve wanted to talk to you for a few years now but haven’t had the guts.

Life’s been kind of hard since I took those pics with you 7-8 years back. I had to drop out of a class because the instructor was giving me his opinion about the photos that he just happened to stumble upon, the love of my life broke up with me cause of the pics, got back together with me but will never marry me, I’ve had people I work with get together behind closed doors and share those pictures with each other (had to quit), people recognize me when I’m out about town, I’ve lost my sense of security.

I’m guessing if what you say is true… you might be willing to consider giving up the rights to my photos? I’m sorry, it takes much courage for me to ask this but life has literally been hell for me since then. I’m a christian and I’m very ashamed of what I did. Though I can never take it back I would love to know that those pics will never be distributed by you again. Let me know what you think and if you would consider discussing this with me.

Thanks

I really wish I hadn’t sold my sites 10 months before surrendering my life to God. As things are, I can do nothing.


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Laura Ingraham Radio Show (Updated – Read Again)

Update:  Sunday, June 1, 2008
Craig and I received the following email earlier today:

From: Tom Elliott
To: Donny Pauling, Craig Gross
Date: Sun, Jun 1, 2008 at 3:48 PM
Subject: Tomorrow

Hey, guys –

Bad news. We’re going to have to take a rain check on tomorrow’s segment. I’m unable to provide a lot of detail, but the short story is that Laura will not be hosting the Laura Ingraham show for the foreseeable future. This just developed over the weekend, so I apologize for the late notice. Could someone please contact Ron, or should I? Whatever’s easiest. (I don’t have an email address, and don’t really want to bother him on a Sunday.)

I do hope we’ll still be able to air this segment; it likely will just have to wait a little while.

Thanks,

Tom

Tom Elliott
Executive Producer
The Laura Ingraham Show

This coming Monday (June 2nd) I’ll be on the Laura Ingraham Show along with Craig Gross and Ron Jeremy (the famous porn star). From the call I received last Tuesday, someone from the show saw the debate at Yale on Nightline ABC. From what I gather, this will be more of a discussion than a debate. I’m also told Laura is syndicated on more than 340 stations and has 6 million listeners. I haven’t checked those numbers for myself, but that’s a lot of people, people! 🙂

To see when Laura’s show broadcasts in your area, and on which station, click here.


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Blunt Talk About Pornography: Questions Answered

As a former producer, it’s normal that people want to ask questions about porn. Many of the questions I’ve received via email or myspace are quite repetitive. I don’t mind answering the same questions over and over again, but I also felt that if the same questions are being asked by so many different people, perhaps it’s time for some sort of “Q & A” column involving some of the questions or issues that are raised most often.

Those posing the questions range from individuals struggling with porn to Pastors or Youth Pastors who want to speak about it in sermons or workshops. At the moment I’m not feeling too motivated to write out a dedicated Q & A section (maybe someday), so I instead spoke with Jason Harper from Capital Christian Center and asked if he’d be willing to have a conversation with me, and to record it in MP3 format so that I could stream it from this site. Jason agreed (he posted our conversation on his podcast as well).

Because we ran out of time, not every question is covered. Many of the most important questions, however, are addressed here (click the triangle to play or right click here and save the file to your harddrive):

Running Time: 31 minutes, 28 seconds

Donny Pauling and Jason Harper, after the podcast….
^^^ Put faces with the voices: Jason (L) and Donny (R) ^^^


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An Email I Received This Morning

Hey Donny,

I have a HUGE problem. I’m getting married in a month, and my fiancé FOUND MY PICTURES on the internet. He is beside himself. He is hurt and shocked and being that we are supposed to tie the knot in less than a month, I’m freakin suicidal!!! Freakin sick over this….throwing up, cannot sleep at all…I never thought in a million years that would ever happen. How long do those pictures circulate?? I am seriously pissed.

I know I did those pics and yes it was my fault, I want to get them OFF the internet. Is there anyway possible to do that ASAP? I will pay you the money back, whatever it takes. This will and is ruining my life. I am fearful that his friends will see and torture him about it, or the people I work with in the military. (they are all men) I am absolutely SICK over this. I can’t eat or sleep and I honestly don’t know what to do. I swear to you, I never thought this would happen. I mean, there are a million girls on the freakin internet….why me?! and because you are supposed to be a changed man? into God and everything? please…I need to know that you understand my situation, and find it in your heart to help me. This is destroying me. I know I am 100% responsible for taking the pictures, it’s my fault. But it was a long time ago, and I was single and I needed the money. But isn’t there anything you can do to please help me now??? This was like 2 or 3 years ago? Why are my pics still on the damned internet???

My military career and soon to be marriage (if he still will) is riding on this. Don’t my pictures expire after a certain time? and you just put new ones up? or sell new ones to companies to flush out old girls? I think you can read the desperation in this email.

I am completely desperate (again) at this point Donny and need your help. Can you help me? Please. I need EVERYTHING removed. What can we do? I’ll pay you money, anything. PLEASE say you can help me. PLEASE.

Yep, porn is harmless…


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Constance: Porn and Human Trafficking

When I speak at “Porn and Pancakes” events all across the country, this is one of the videos we play.

Constance is a story about a girl in the Philippines victimized by Human Trafficking. It was created by Mr. J Medeiros and directed by Sam Sanchez of Stick Productions. It was produced by Ramses Jiminez of Legacy Street Productions.

It has inspired an international human rights movement called the “Constance Campaign.” Mr. J spearheaded the movement, and has partnered with Non-Profit’s like IamComing.org, XXXChurch.com, and HumanTrafficking.org.

In May 2007, Constance was featured on CBS Evening News in an expose’ on Internet pornography.

While the video doesn’t show anything, I’d still recommend parents not allow children under age 13 watch it. It may rile you a little. That’s what it’s intended to do…

Feel free to post this as a bulletin on your myspace if you see fit. To do so just copy and paste the code, which you can get by clicking this link and then copying the code over there on the right of the video where it says “embed”.

AFTER READING THIS ARTICLE AND WATCHING THE VIDEO PLEASE CHECK THIS OUT:

This website tells the story of Constance, the inspiration for the video. It begins like this:

I am Constance and this is my story…

I was a typical 13-year old girl in my small and poor village. My life was filled with helping my mother and siblings, doing chores, and spending free time with my friends. Lucky to be in school, my time was also spent doing homework for the simple education I was getting.

Click here to continue reading.

DISCLAIMER: Don’t get the wrong idea here. I personally don’t know anyone in the adult industry that did stuff like this. If you’d like to know what the majority of those in the porn world are like please click here and read the article I wrote for XXXChurch.


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Porn Is Harmless, Right? (UPDATED – READ AGAIN)

UPDATE: I tell much more of this story in the column I write for xxxchurch (click here)

MySpace. This Morning. Click to Enlarge:

Click to enlarge

All she did were solo nudes, folks. Posed alone. For photos.

Harmless, yes?

I’m gonna go deeper into this story later. Check back tomorrow morning.